I haven’t been posting any Raven Updates lately because I haven’t been receiving any. Unfortunately I am only a “step-grandmother.” Since I have chosen to separate from her “blood” grandfather, I am reminded of my place in the “family scheme.” And, furthermore, since there is no chance of “reconciliation” with aforementioned grandfather, I am pushed even further out of the loop. I don’t want to sound bitter or resentful, because I am not. (Don’t get me started on the pain and heartache that I am feeling, though.) I am thankful that I was able to be there for them through the toughest part. I am thankful that Raven is on the road to recovery as of the last time that we spoke. My main focus is, and has always been, those kids. (She has a 4 year old brother.) Therefore, I don’t want to start whining now. I thank all of you for your thoughts and prayers through her ordeal. Again, this was proof that prayer works. I continue to pray for them, and hope that their mother is able to continue supporting them. as well as herself. Needless to say, I will update again if I get a knock on the door or a call on the phone…

I pray that you get both from a Mom who realises what a total mistake she is making by leaving you out. I could care less what her “Dad” thinks about the whole thing… but to deprive you of those grandkids is beyond cruel.
BIG VIRTUAL HUGS!!! Love you Kel!!!
Kelli, My prayers continue daily for Raven. Now you will be added to the list…and that someday her mom will see the “truth”. You deserve that.